A school principal whose wife tried to kill herself because of depression over Covid-19 plans to start community education campaigns focused at destigmatising people who are infected by the virus.
Speaking to Sowetan from his Benoni home in Ekurhuleni on Tuesday, the 51-year-old whose name is being hidden to protect their children, struggled to save his 48-year-old wife from the flames engulfing her isolation room at their house.
“It was day 11 [June 6] of her being in isolation at home. After all the assistance and medication we had given her, we were not aware that she was losing it.”
He said his wife woke up that morning around 4am and went to the kitchen while everybody in the house was still sleeping. He and their 17-year-old son went to check on her to see if she was fine before they went back to bed.
“After a while we realised there was something burning. I rushed to her isolation room. It was locked. I broke the door open and found her in flames.
“I immediately took a blanket and attempted to put out the fire until my brave eight-year-old child rushed to fetch a bucket of water which she emptied on her mom in an attempt to rescue her.”
While waiting for paramedics, the principal said, he tried to calm his wife.
“She was sobbing painfully . She got up and took a heater and held it tight. I ran again and removed it from her. She was hallucinating, my heart broke and I felt so helpless. I held her and watched her till the paramedic arrived and rushed her to hospital.”
He said his wife tested positive for the virus two weeks ago after returning from a meeting at a school in Daveyton where she is a teacher.
“It was on May 26 when she returned home sick from work and we assumed it was flu. She went to the doctors before she tested positive the next day.”
The principal said his wife did not show any further symptoms of the virus while in isolation.
“She would go for walks in the morning with her mask on around the yard while we cleaned and disinfected her room and sanitised everything in it. She looked very well although she was panicking about her status.
“I comforted her but I was not aware that she was being depressed from getting messages on social media from friends and colleagues.”
He said she lamented about being sent messages that made her feel like she was about to die. She also complained about gossip that came from colleagues and friends.
“I am a school principal. I felt the pain seeing the lack of education in our people on the pandemic. It made me aware that there was a great need to address the stigma in our society and for people to understand that words have power to destroy a person,” he said.
He also said he took his wife’s phone and blocked all her social media applications.
“I have a strong character and I can stay positive when faced with trying times but after looking at her cry, I had to ask myself, ‘how would I react if I was the one who tested positive for the virus?’”
He said his wife did not take lightly to the news .
On Monday, doctors confirmed his wife was now negative. “Now we focus on her journey to recovery on her burn wounds,” he said.
A family friend said the principal also went into quarantine and has together with his children twice tested negative.